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  On a long drive home from school today, I remembered a memory of mine from almost eleven years ago. Phil had decided that it just was not acceptable that I didn't know how to drive a standard. So we piled into his magic van and were driving around the Exit 10 area, near where I lived. I pulled into Longkill Park to turn around, and managed to stall the van just as a cop was driving past. Immediately, the red lights went on and the cops had everyone out of the van and did a thorough search of the back. After about five minutes into the search, one cop comes around to where they had us standing, with a slightly limp gorilla head in one hand and his flashlight in the other. He says to Phil, "Don't you think it's suspicious keeping a gorilla suit in the back of your van?" Without missing a beat Phil says, "Why? Where do you keep yours?"

Phil represents my first timid steps into adulthood, while still seeing the world through young eyes and marveling at the vastness of it all. Phil was the courageous one with gleaming eyes, rubbing his palms together, wanting desperately to suck the marrow from life and to experience all he could. I admired that quality so much in him, mainly because I was scared to do it myself. There was never a person Phil couldn’t relate to (in some form or another) or a situation he couldn’t handle. I admired his courage, his wit, and feel blessed that I was able to know him.

I miss you Phil.

Alex

 

   
 

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